@21Lilah I said the same darn thing they could have easily said issue the checks to everyone with no exceptions. Just for this type of check but we all know the states petitioned to make this the only exception due to how much debt and arrearages men owes. But, they could have easily said only take the the party that owes the debt not the both parties. They are all about monies to fill their gap deficits I am tired of being a money mule because of who I married it isn’t fair period.
