re: "I think I know what is happening ... bet they said YES to already having an account which auto populated"
Yup, I said YES to that, which is what I figured triggered it to just send it to the IRS without giving me a chance to give the direct deposit info. Unfortunately it doesn't seem to let me change anything now (though it says the information was sent, it hasn't yet given me confirmation the information was accepted), so again it sounds like the bug means I need to wait perhaps for weeks/months for the IRS to let me update direct deposit info or to send a check. Unless there is some way they can fix the bug and resend the information...
