This is a thread from last year, but currently I am seeking guidance. In my case, my son left our martial home for college in 2017 where he had a dorm, and now has an apt there (he's now 21) and several months later my ex wife filed for divorce and moved out. Custody has never been discussed. I never thought it would be, as he was over 19. Per the divorce decree, we are alternating years of claiming him as dependent. For 2018, I filed single with no dependents a f not hoh as it was her year to claim him. For 2019 I am filing single with dependent and hoh as it is my year to claim him I learned from my ex, that she is claiming hoh. Is this setting up a fight? To my knowledge, he doesnt receive any mail at her home, and I pay for his tuition, food, rent, and truck, etc...she pays for his health insurance, and he does spend more time with her when he is not at school, much to my dismay, but I dont want him to have to choose who he sees more...Will this become an issue?
