Need recommendations on how best to file 2019 taxes

Hello, I'm looking for some guidance in picking the correct TT version/filing correctly, knowing that I have complicated filing for 2019

1. My wife worked in DC, I worked in MD through all of 2019.

2. We both lived together (renting) in VA for 4 months and then purchased a home in DC and moved in for the rest of the year (8 months).

3.  We sold Simple IRA as well as stocks from a personal account to assist with the down payment.

Any suggestions to ensure I capture these nuances while still being able to claim credits for being a first time home owner would be appreciated!

Thanks.