@TurboTaxMiriam if you have access to the "lounge" I have a post there. I've been fighting this issue for more than a year. Apparently they focus-grouped the question "are you living together unmarried with the other parent" and people thought it was an invasion of privacy (but sharing all your other tax info is not?) and so instead they've allowed the program to create significant confusion in such cases. Even getting them to just change the wording on one help screen has been impossible.
