I use to have the same problem. Since you both got fifty/fifty custody. The way it works is, who ever files the child first gets the money. Now if you can show you provided more than half the care for the child, an if they clam your kid you can always clam them too. You both will end up having to show proof of where the kid lives the most or who took most care of the kid. Then one of y'all will end up having to get audited of it. But if you can not show proof and she claims your kid before you do, then your just out of luck and next tax season beat her to file. So first come fisrt get
