Thank you Diane! That clears up most of what I was trying to figure out. I was able to find the estimated tax voucher for federal from the payroll company and get it entered. I added the federal and state taxes (did not have ES voucher, ok?) to the amount we paid the nanny for our child care expenses.
I guess one semi-confusing point that I want to confirm is that I enter myself (the EIN I setup) as a care provider, correct?
