Why does she believe you already filed ? If you have not filed then you are waiting for nothing. If you do get a refund that you didn't apply for then be very careful ... the newest scam is to file a return for you and even send the refund to your bank account or home but then you get a call from someone claiming to be from the IRS requiring you to "return" the incorrect refund but they have you send it to them after you cash it but you are not really sending it to the IRS.
