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What EXACTLY does the "notarized agreement" say?  Does the document say he can claim the child every-other year?  If it has all of the information that Form 8332 has, that may be a valid document allowing the father to claim the child for those years.
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If you both claim the child, the IRS will send you both notices asking you to prove your claim.