Since you're a non-resident alien (NRA) in the eyes of the IRS, you should file a 1040-NR and report your U.S. source income. See IRS Publication 519, About Publication 519, U.S. Tax Guide for Aliens | Internal Revenue Service
You may also take a look at the U.S.-Netherland Tax Treaty and see if there are any special treatments:
Netherlands - Tax treaty documents | Internal Revenue Service
In general, NRAs do not file joint tax returns with their spouse. You will most likely be better off doing "married, filing separately" to report only your U.S. source income. Yes, use your Netherland address on your 2024 1040-NR.
Let me know if need help. I may be able to refer you to an Enrolled Agent in Switzerland who specializes in ex-pat U.S. tax filings.
