Volume, Frequency and Holding period of Trades

Most brokerages only give trade date with dates and profits and loss.

 

I read somewhere for tax purpose one should treat such Options Spread as 2 trades (there are 2 legs). So if you open and closed a spread in day. Then it is 4 trades per day. Is this approximate calculation for trading volume?

 

I am trying to determine

 

Volume (how many trades each day or average per day),

 

Frequency:  e.g. Executes trades on close to four days per week, so that is working 4 out 5 days and that is 80% frequency of trading.

 

Holding periods (What is average holding period, From day I opened a trade to close a trade)

 

How can I do  that? I don't think Turbo Tax gives you this information. Does Quicken books give you this information?

 

I can get trade data from my brokerage into Microsoft Excel and then how to analyze from there? Any suggestion for either free or subscription software?