No, it was extended until Dec 31, 2022 only. They allowed me to withdraw the money because we did have childcare expenses however those funds should be counted as taxable benefits (2441 line 26, 1040 line 1e) because the income of spouse was $0. But I can't get TurboTax to fill the 2441.
Could you please give me more details on how to get to the "Any carryovers from 2020 or 2021 used in 2022?" question? If I could fill that in, it seems like things might work.
