If turbo tax is taking $90 out of my return, why when I'm also doing my new Mexico file you guys are trying to charge me another $40.

There is an additional charge for state taxes with all products, except Free Edition. https://turbotax.intuit.com/personal-taxes/online/

To see what you are being charged for please follow the instructions in the following FAQ.

https://ttlc.intuit.com/community/charges-and-fees/help/how-do-i-review-my-fees-in-turbotax-online/00/26353

I almost chose to have TurboTax to get paid from my income tax return however there is a $40 fee if a person opts to do this. So I used my debit card instead because I didn’t want to pay $40 on top of the $80 I already had to pay.

Glad you noticed it before you filed.  A lot of users don't.