Hello LifeChanges, I understand how you feel, I have had to take a distribution from a 401(k) when I was under 59 1/2. There are some exception you may qualify for to help reduce the 10% early withdraw penalty.
There is a Taxcaster for 2022 but the 2023 version isn't ready yet. It may help you with the estimates you are looking for as far as your situation.
Tax Calculator 2022
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