I have a HDMP and HSA to cover my family. TurboTax asks if my spouse has a plan, do I say yes if shes under mine but doesn't pay for her own or contribute to the hsa?

[dmertz]

Yes, she is covered by the same family HDHP plan as you are.  If she is not covered by any disqualifying coverage, she is eligible to contribute to an HSA.  However, the family-coverage HSA contribution limit is split between the two of you and TurboTax will calculate her maximum contribution based not only on her age and the months of coverage but also the amount that was contributed to your HSA.