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Both my husband and I are separated and have children. If I itemize does he have to do the same?

818kriisti — Tue, 03 Feb 2026 10:33:06 GMT

My husband and I are separated and not living together and each have children. If I itemize does he have to do the same?

Re: Both my husband and I are separated and have children. If I itemize does he have to do the same?

DoninGA — Sun, 16 Feb 2025 19:56:05 GMT

If you are filing as Married Filing Separately then you both either must itemize deductions or both use the Standard Deduction.

Re: Both my husband and I are separated and have children. If I itemize does he have to do the same?

xmasbaby0 — Sun, 16 Feb 2025 19:58:16 GMT

That depends. If you have lived apart for at least the last six months of 2024, and you have the children, you can file as Head of Household. If you file as HOH you do not have to worry about whether he itemized or used standard deduction.

Am I Head of Household?

https://ttlc.intuit.com/turbotax-support/en-us/help-article/tax-filing-status/qualify-head-household-2021/L0NxUtVc2_US_en_US?uid=m5x19jkx

What is a "qualifying person" for Head of Household?

If you qualify as Head of Household, when you enter your marital status (single or married filing separately) into MyInfo, and then enter your qualifying dependent, TurboTax will offer HOH as your filing status.

https://ttlc.intuit.com/turbotax-support/en-us/help-article/taxation/married-person-claim-head-household-filing-status/L078u1RSW_US_en_US?uid=m62dkc4a

Re: Both my husband and I are separated and have children. If I itemize does he have to do the same?

VolvoGirl — Sun, 16 Feb 2025 19:58:44 GMT

Yes you both have to file the same way. Even if he has less than the Standard Deduction. Even if it’s zero. What state are you in?

If one person itemizes deductions on Schedule A then the other one must itemize too, even if it's less than the standard deduction, even if it is ZERO! And if you are in a Community Property state it can be complicated to figure out.

And there are several credits you can't take when filing separately, like the

EITC Earned Income Tax Credit

Child Care Credit

Educational Deductions and Credits

And contributions to IRA and ROTH IRA are limited when you file MFS.

Re: Both my husband and I are separated and have children. If I itemize does he have to do the same?

818kriisti — Sun, 16 Feb 2025 20:04:11 GMT

I am in CA. We are not living together and as mentioned have children and both qualify for head of household. If we both qualify for head of household and one itemizes does the other have to do the same?

Re: Both my husband and I are separated and have children. If I itemize does he have to do the same?

KeshaH — Sun, 16 Feb 2025 23:18:30 GMT

You only have to both itemize if you both file as married filing separately. Since you are filing as head of household, one of you can itemize while the other takes the standard deduction.