Taking money from your 401k to purchase a house is not an exception to the 10% early withdrawal penalty. That is only with a traditional IRA. You will face the early withdrawal penalty and ordinary income tax on the amount you took out of a 401k. You will each receive a 1099R for the distributions, which must be entered on your tax return.
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