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June 4, 2019
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My husband has a son (5 yo) from his ex girlfriend. He supports him. Can we list him as dependent?

  • June 4, 2019
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    Best answer by Critter

    The parent with whom the child lives more than half the year (184 or more 184 nights for 2016) is automatically entitled to claim the child as a dependent. This is the custodial parent. (IRS determines custody based on where the child lives, not any court order or agreement.)  The non-custodial parent is not entitled to claim anything.

    However, the custodial parent can sign a release (form 8332) allowing the non-custodial parent to claim the child as a dependent.  You can download this form from the IRS web site.  The custodial parent signs it and gives it to the non-custodial parent and the non-custodial parent mails it to the IRS after e-filing the rest of their tax return.  In this case, the non-custodial parent can claim the dependent exemption and the child tax credit.  The non-custodial parent can never claim earned income credit, the dependent care credit (day care credit) or use the child to qualify for head of household status.  Those benefits always stay with the custodial parent.


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    DoninGA
    Level 15
    Level 15
    June 4, 2019
    Is the child living in your home?
    Level 2
    June 4, 2019
    No
    Critter
    CritterAnswer
    Level 15
    June 4, 2019

    The parent with whom the child lives more than half the year (184 or more 184 nights for 2016) is automatically entitled to claim the child as a dependent. This is the custodial parent. (IRS determines custody based on where the child lives, not any court order or agreement.)  The non-custodial parent is not entitled to claim anything.

    However, the custodial parent can sign a release (form 8332) allowing the non-custodial parent to claim the child as a dependent.  You can download this form from the IRS web site.  The custodial parent signs it and gives it to the non-custodial parent and the non-custodial parent mails it to the IRS after e-filing the rest of their tax return.  In this case, the non-custodial parent can claim the dependent exemption and the child tax credit.  The non-custodial parent can never claim earned income credit, the dependent care credit (day care credit) or use the child to qualify for head of household status.  Those benefits always stay with the custodial parent.


    DoninGA
    Level 15
    Level 15
    June 4, 2019

    Since the child does not live with you then you would not be able to claim him as a dependent on your tax return under the Qualifying child rules.

    To be a Qualifying Child -

    1. The child must be your son, daughter, stepchild, foster child, brother, sister, half brother, half sister, stepbrother, stepsister, or a descendant of any of them.

    2. The child must be (a) under age 19 at the end of the year, (b) under age 24 at the end of the year and a full-time student or (c) any age and permanently and totally disabled.

    3. The child must have lived with you for more than half of the year. Temporary absences while away at college are considered living with you.

    4. The child must not have provided more than half of his or her own support for the year.

    5. If the child meets the rules to be a qualifying child of more than one person, you must be the person entitled to claim the child as a qualifying child. 

    6. The child must be a U.S. citizen or U.S., Canada or Mexico resident for some portion of the year.

    7. The child must be younger than you unless disabled.

    Level 2
    June 4, 2019
    So even if he almost fully supports the child (his mother makes very little amount of money), the child still has to live with us to qualify as a dependent?
    Critter
    Level 15
    June 4, 2019

    IRS dependent rules ... 

    If you are married filing separately and both parents live with the child, either parent can claim the child as a dependent and only they get all the child related benefits ... they cannot be split.



    If you are unmarried but live together with the child, either one of you can claim the child (or children) as dependents. If the parent who claims the child as a dependent also pays more than half the expenses of keeping up their home, they can file as head of household instead of single, which is slightly more favorable.  The other parent should not even list them in Turbotax, because there are some poorly worded questions that confuse some people.



    If you are unmarried or never married and live apart and share custody, then:

    The parent with whom the child lives more than half the year (184 or more 184 nights for 2016) is automatically entitled to claim the child as a dependent. This is the custodial parent. (IRS determines custody based on where the child lives, not any court order or agreement.)  The non-custodial parent is not entitled to claim anything.

    However, the custodial parent can sign a release (form 8332) allowing the non-custodial parent to claim the child as a dependent.  You can download this form from the IRS web site.  The custodial parent signs it and gives it to the non-custodial parent and the non-custodial parent mails it to the IRS after e-filing the rest of their tax return.  In this case, the non-custodial parent can claim the dependent exemption and the child tax credit.  The non-custodial parent can never claim earned income credit, the dependent care credit (day care credit) or use the child to qualify for head of household status.  Those benefits always stay with the custodial parent.