I pay my mother for the care that she does for me im not sure what tax id number am i supposed to write down other than her social

 

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Yes. Use her social security number for her ID. 

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it keeps coming back as she needs a tax ID and it wont let me efile because of it

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Be sure to check that her tax ID is her SSN not an EIN   

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she dosent have a business though

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IRS considers baby sitting a business.

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What kind of care does she do for you?  For Child Care?  Where are you trying to enter it?

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trying to enter it under dependent care

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she picks up drop offs