I understand the frustration. I know this is easier said than done, but please stay patient. That being said, I have found some information below that I hope guides your in a positive direction.
If your return was accepted less than 21 days ago,
hang in there. It can take anywhere from a few days to 3 weeks to go from
acceptance to approval, and this time frame is unrelated to how, where, or when
you filed, nor is it connected to how quickly you got your refund last year.
IRS
representatives will be able to research the
status of your refund if your return was accepted (received) more than
21 calendar days ago. Call them at 1-800-829-1040, but prepare yourself
for a potentially long wait times.
Once you've been accepted, you can also
start tracking your federal refund at the IRS Where's My
Refund site. Be aware
that they have had some system issues, so if the feature says it is not
available at this time, just check back later.