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March 18, 2020
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she withdrew her 401k in 2019 and she took my 401k 70% of it after divorce in 2020

  • March 18, 2020
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PLEASE HELP me i got divorced on 12/31/2019 but still lived with me in 2020  ex wife said to file single head of house hold and now she forgot to mention the 401k she took out in 2019 she won't tell me details about it i supported her all year while she was going to school she got one paycheck for two weeks that carried over from 2018 now she is telling me about the 401k withdraw from her own account and to put a cherry on to she just got 70% of my 401k last week  

    Best answer by VictoriaD75

    If you were legally divorced on December 31, you would file as Single. You cannot claim your former spouse as your dependent. You can only claim Head of Household if you have another dependent that you supported. 

     

    To qualify for Head of Household filing status, the following must apply:

    • The taxpayer must be unmarried as of December 31, 2019
    • The taxpayer must have provided more than half the cost of keeping a home. This includes rent/mortgage, taxes, utilities, meals, etc.
    • The home must have been the principal residence of a dependent child or other qualifying dependent relative

     

    Guide to Filing Taxes as Head of Household

     

    She would claim the withdrawal of her 401(k) as income on her own return. You will not claim it on yours. However, you may have to claim a distribution from your 401(k) as a result of the divorce stipulation.

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    Critter
    Level 15
    March 19, 2020

    Ok ... if you were divorced on 12/31 then what she has means nothing to you at all.  You cannot claim her as a dependent or use her for HOH filing status.  You will simply file your own return reporting your own income.

    VictoriaD75
    Level 12
    March 19, 2020

    If you were legally divorced on December 31, you would file as Single. You cannot claim your former spouse as your dependent. You can only claim Head of Household if you have another dependent that you supported. 

     

    To qualify for Head of Household filing status, the following must apply:

    • The taxpayer must be unmarried as of December 31, 2019
    • The taxpayer must have provided more than half the cost of keeping a home. This includes rent/mortgage, taxes, utilities, meals, etc.
    • The home must have been the principal residence of a dependent child or other qualifying dependent relative

     

    Guide to Filing Taxes as Head of Household

     

    She would claim the withdrawal of her 401(k) as income on her own return. You will not claim it on yours. However, you may have to claim a distribution from your 401(k) as a result of the divorce stipulation.

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    956cd712Author
    Level 2
    March 19, 2020

    even if she still lived with me in 2020?

     

    Critter
    Level 15
    March 19, 2020

    If she had more than $4000 of any kind of income she cannot be your dependent and can never qualify you for HOH.